The kid, barely 21 with the Hair, The pants, the walk. the shoes.
Then your their friends in front slow down and their gate stutters, there voice vibrates as the traffic jam of cool in front of them ….. [i can’t change the pronoun]

Then your friends in front  slow down and your gate stutters, 
your voice vibratos
As the traffic jam of cool in front of you reminds you, 
You are behind your friends.

The kid, barely 21 with the Hair, The pants, the walk. the shoes. Then your their friends in front slow down and their gate stutters, there voice vibrates as the traffic jam of cool in front of them ….. [i can’t change the pronoun]

Then your friends in front slow down and your gate stutters, your voice vibratos As the traffic jam of cool in front of you reminds you, You are behind your friends.

Oh, to explain the IDGF (but I do)…
I like this indifferent way of life;
If I lose (and I’m not successful/cool/famous/covetted/etc)
I win (I’m doing what I love, most moments are worth it).

Back to this place…

…I wonder, wouldn’t you rather be naked, making out, rolling around, writhing with your ideal—probably your mirror—than doing this?

Oh, to explain the IDGF (but I do)… I like this indifferent way of life; If I lose (and I’m not successful/cool/famous/covetted/etc) I win (I’m doing what I love, most moments are worth it).

Back to this place…

…I wonder, wouldn’t you rather be naked, making out, rolling around, writhing with your ideal—probably your mirror—than doing this?

Now back to the questions I’d like to answer for my day-to-day to feel like these evening (steam releasing) institutions thrive;
What if a typical ‘day at the office’ could feel like this bar atmosphere evokes for some?

Now back to the questions I’d like to answer for my day-to-day to feel like these evening (steam releasing) institutions thrive; What if a typical ‘day at the office’ could feel like this bar atmosphere evokes for some?

But first, 
This noisy place evokes feelings of (meta-)social analysis…

But first, This noisy place evokes feelings of (meta-)social analysis…

Ok so this is what I hope to brain storm on… And next is what ensued

Ok so this is what I hope to brain storm on… And next is what ensued

When I was a kid people would say,
“Whoa, that’s deep, man.”
With a tone of disdain, or that being deep is ‘bad’.

Now there’s a different term, Meta.
And it’s good.

When I was a kid people would say, “Whoa, that’s deep, man.” With a tone of disdain, or that being deep is ‘bad’.

Now there’s a different term, Meta. And it’s good.

[Flash 9 is required to listen to audio.]
cool talk by TTS

I’ve had these thought mulling through my mind for a while and wasn’t in the mood to type it out, so I recorded myself talking. I thought maybe I’d transcribe it but it’s kind of nice the way it is. The subject matter is very taboo to some and pointless to others. I hope you enjoy my little mellow rant.

Groupthink, Conformity and Social Groups

Here’s a collection of some social psychology concepts I find interesting. I’ll let these clinical definitions speak for me.


A social group is a collection of people who interact with each other and share similar characteristics and a sense of unity. A social category is a collection of people who do not interact but who share similar characteristics. For example, women, men, the elderly, and high school students all constitute social categories. A social category can become a social group when the members in the category interact with each other and identify themselves as members of the group. In contrast, a social aggregate is a collection of people who are in the same place, but who do not interact or share characteristics. from here

Groupthink in action: video

Groupthink is a psychological phenomenon that occurs within groups of people. It is the mode of thinking that happens when the desire for harmony in a decision-making group overrides a realistic appraisal of alternatives. Group members try to minimize conflict and reach a consensus decision without critical evaluation of alternative ideas or viewpoints. Antecedent factors such as group cohesiveness, structural faults, and situational context play into the likelihood of whether or not groupthink will impact the decision-making process.

The primary socially negative cost of groupthink is the loss of individual creativity, uniqueness, and independent thinking. from wiki


If you are interested in more, I think social psychology is the field that digs into this kind of thought. Social Psychology wiki

I haven’t found the term for the concept I’ve noticed. Maybe you can help: Having a label or term applied to a new phenomenon or unusual something, legitimizes its acceptability. For example, “What’s that slop you are eating?” someone says after looking at a medley of vegetables, cheese and grains. You respond, “Quiche.” The amend, “Looks tasty!”

This applies to new inventions, foods, clothing, whatever. If you do it on your own, you’re eccentric. If someone markets the idea puts a few bucks in an ad campaign, gets it sold in stores, then all of a sudden another social phenomenon occurs like ostracization for not knowing about the name for this same thing.

Example: blended up fruit before jamba juice existed, I yes I’ll get personal now, I was ridiculed or poked fun at for drinking such funky looking barf, then a few years later all those same douchebags are spending $5+ a pop for store-made smoothies.


Back to the first paragraph, I like having a distinction between of social group vs social category. now to let my computer read me the entire social psychology article while I doze off to sleep.

In conclusion, who cares.

Thanks for listening.

Restarting sshd on OS X

launchctl list launchctl stop com.openssh.sshd launchctl start com.openssh.sshd

wow. after editing /etc/ssh/sshd_config